Prayer Meditation
| You will find a new prayer meditation here each week from Recess or Chalkdust, the writings of Elspeth Campbell Murphy, a teacher-author who shares experiences that are unique to teachers only.
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For Self Acceptance
Father,
sometimes I think it might be easier
if she weren't in the classroom next door.
But then I think, No,
I'd still see her at the ditto machine,
neatly running off and slipping into the folders
math papers she will need,
not in fifteen minutes,
but in three weeks.
I'd still see her in the lounge,
sipping a diet soft drink,
as she reads Piaget for fun.
I'd still see her
drifting perfumed and polished down the hall,
stopping only to tell a seven foot tall kid
to scrape his gum out of the drinking fountain
and being obeyed.
But, oh
first thing in he morning it is hard
to have her right next door.
Hard,
to come skidding down the hall,
the purple ditto ink not yet dry on my nose,
and see her standing at her door
smiling serenely at her children as they arrive.
Smiling at her children.
First thing in the morning.
Oh, Father,
why can't I be like that?
You know, calm,
well organized,
cheerful,
perfect?
I guess perfection's not my style.
You've helped me accept myself as a person
imperfections and all.
So help me to accept myself as a teacher
imperfedtions and all. Amen.
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SEVEN QUOTES ON THE ART OF TEACHING
Note: Look for a new quote at the top of this list each week, and please send your favorite so we can include it!
1. "The important thing in life is not the triumph but the struggle."
--- Pierre de Coubertin
2. "If I had more time, I would have written a shorter letter." ---Marcus T. Cicero
3. "I am not ashamed to confess that I am ignorant of what I do not know." ---Marcus T. Cicero
4. "What greater or better gift can we offer the republic than to teach and
instruct our youth." ---Marcus T. Cicero
5. "The empires of the future are the empires of the mind." ...Winston Churchill
6. "Give me a fish and I eat for a day. Teach me to fish and I eat for a lifetime."
---Chinese Proverb
7. "I hear, and I forget. I see, and I remember. I do, and I understand." --- Chinese Proverb
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Apples for the Teacher
| A Bushel of: Stories, Poems, --- and Prayers written by Colleen L. Reece and Anita Corrine Donihue (Look for a new picking here each week.) |
THIS WEEK THIS WEEK THE TONE OF THE VOICE
It's not so much what we say
As the manner in which we say it.
It's not so much the language we use
As the tone in which we convey it.
"Come here!" I sharply ordered;
And a child cowered and wept.
"Come here," I softly whispered;
And into my arms he crept.
Words may be mild and fair,
But the tone pierces like a dart.
Words may be soft as summer air,
But the tone can break a heart.
Author Unknown
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| LAST WEEK WINGS OF EAGLES
The car accident happened so fast Mark couldn't even recall the events. Now as he lay in his hospital bed, Mark, a gifted athelete, wondered if he would ever walk again, let alone run. Fear washed over him. He shoved it aside when his Sunday School teacher came in for a visit.
Ken pulled a poster from a sack and handed it to Mark. The boy unfolded it. "All right!" He stared at the huge eagle, its mighty wings spread in flight, and the Scripture at the bottom.
"You can do it, Mark," Ken said. "This may be the biggest hurdle you ever have to clear. With God's help, you can do it."
In the following weeks and months Mark traced the eagle's wings with his fingers a hundred times. He prayed for help as he sweated and struggled to regain the use of his legs.
Two years later, Mark won his high school track meet hurdles race. Ken met him at the finish line. Mark threw his arms around his Sunday school teacher. "One more hurdle," he said, panting. Ken just hugged him.
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SOMETHING SPECIAL
It's hard to believe these were actually done by first graders, but there are some good ones nonetheless. A first grade teacher collected well known proverbs. She gave each child in her class the first half of a proverb and asked them to come up with the remainder of the proverb. Their insight may surprise you.
Never underestimate the power of............termites
Don't bite the hand that....................looks dirty
No news is..................................impossible
A miss is as good as a......................Mr.
If you lie down with dogs, you'll...........stink in the morning
The pen is mightier than the................pigs
An idle mind is.............................the best way to relax
Where there's smoke there's.................pollution
Happy the bride who.........................gets all the presents
A penny saved is............................not much
Two's company, three's......................the Musketeers
Don't put off till tomorrow what............you put on to go to bed
Laugh and the whole world laughs with you, cry and.......you have to blow your nose
Children should be seen and not.............spanked or grounded
If at first you don't succeed...............get new batteries
You get out of something what you...........see pictured on the box
When the blind leadeth the blind............get out of the way
A Teacher's Story
There is a story many years ago of an elementary teacher. Her name was Mrs. Thompson. And as she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same. But that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy.
Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners...he is a joy to be around."
His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well-liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle." His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."
Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing and a bottle that was one quarter full of perfume. She stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.
Teddy stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children left she cried for at least an hour.
On that very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."
A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, second in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole life. Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer. The letter was signed,
Theodore F. Stollard, M.D.
The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom.
Of course, Mrs. Thompson, did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. And she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged each other, and Teddy whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you, Mrs. Thompson, for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."
Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you."
Angels In The Classroom
A Pastor read a letter from an elementary school teacher who attends East Hill Church. The gist of the letter was as follows:
Last school year, her classroom was made up of little third graders of which every one of them came from either a single parent family or a dysfunctional family. Some of them were undernourished and/or not cared for. Also, there were some that lived in an abusive home in which they were beaten, bruised, or raped by a family member. One little girl's dad died of aids, and the list goes on. Her heart bled for these kids.
Before the 1999-2000 school year started, she and her husband went to her classroom and prayed over each desk in the room. They prayed that God would place an angel behind each and every child throughout the coming year to watch over them and protect them.
A month or so after the year had started she gave the kids an assignment to write about what they would like to be when they grew up. Everyone was busy with his or her assignment, when Andrew raised his hand. When she asked him what he needed, he asked how to spell mighty.
After telling him how to spell mighty, she asked him why he needed to know, and Andrew said it was because when he grew up he wanted to be a mighty man of God.
When he said this, little Mark sitting next to him asked," So what's a mighty man of God?"
The teacher, swallowing back her tears, and knowing she could not say anything in the classroom about God, told Andrew to go ahead and tell Mark what it was. So Andrew said," It's a man who puts on the armor of God and is a soldier for God."
After observing some conversation between Andrew and Mark, the teacher, with a lump in her throat, started to walk away when Andrew motioned with his little finger for her to come closer. He whispered to her, asking if she believed in angels. She told him yes, she did. Then he asked her if she thought people could see angels,and she said she thought some people probably could. Andrew said that he did, and he could see an angel standing behind each kid in the room.
I don't think there was a dry eye in the church that night. We need to remember to pray for all of our teachers and educators; that although there is no prayer in school, that they are dedicated enough to pray for protection of God's angels over the lives of their students.
Maybe it wouldn't hurt to pray for angels at your work, too.
---Author Unknown, found at ByGodsGrace.net
THE WORLD NEEDS MORE MEAN* TEACHERS!
A MEAN teacher insists that each student do the best s/he is capable of doing.
A MEAN teacher insists that students hand in their assignments on time and takes off points for late assignments.
A MEAN teacher does not accept incomplete assignments.
A MEAN teacher requires each student to think carefully and to make her/his own decisions.
A MEAN teacher holds each student responsible for her/his own behavior.
A MEAN teacher makes students keep the classroom, themselves, and their belongings neat and clean.
A MEAN teacher does not allow free time in class until all class-work is done.
A MEAN teacher gives homework regularly, sometimes even on weekends.
A MEAN teacher calls on students who don't raise their hands to answer questions.
A MEAN teacher requires all students to treat each other with respect.
A MEAN teacher makes life miserable for students by insisting that they always tell the truth.
A MEAN teacher produces students who are respectful, responsible, and successful.
By Laura M. Staunton/New Jersey
Barb Erichson/Michigan
*Mean= Making Excellence A Necessity
TEACHING TIP: TEACHER GOALS
Once you start the process of developing or enhancing a teaching style which will help you make your job more effective and enjoyable, you might consider some of these goals:
1. Be in command, in charge, and supremely confident in the classroom. You are a PROFESSIONAL, after all.
2. Never lose your temper. Be firm, perhaps, but dont ever lose control. Deal with explosive situations at another time or another place.
3. Talk to students as if theyre human beings, not predatory devils. A little respect for students goes a long way and doesnt stop you from providing advice and guidance.
4. Have a sense of humor. Be ready to laugh even at yourself at appropriate moments.
5. Be fair. "Fair" is probably the most commonly mentioned trait students use about teachers. It may be the hardest thing to do. Work at it. Ask for help from fellow teachers, administrators, and students.
6. Be a mentor or get a mentor. Find someone on the faculty you can trust to bounce ideas off of.
7. Be organized. Read any book on how to be organized that looks like it might help.
8. Try not to take problems home. Work, yes, but problems, no. Resolve them before you leave for the day or at least develop a plan for resolving them tomorrow.
9. Be prepared. Not necessarily in the Boy Scout sense, but have ready all you need for teaching before school starts. Have your lessons planned, make sure all materials are in place, and check the VCR before you show that video.
10. Be the professional with parents and administrators. Consider the concerns and requirements of others, but remember
youre a trained professional.
11. Give a little of yourself. Arrive a little early, stay a little late. Everyone on the faculty knows who comes in at the last minute and leaves just as the final bell tolls.
GUIDELINES FOR HELPING The Compulsive Talker:
Have you ever had one in your classroom? A compulsive talker loves to talk, and engages in the practice with one and all constantly. Talks to teachers continually. Talks to other students continually. Will even talk to him/herself. A compulsive talker is often a poor listener, often does not realize that he/she is talking, often has a short attention span. Craves attention.
WHAT TO DO:
Remember, this is more a social problem than a discipline problem. If treated as a discipline problem, it may become one. The ability to talk is not a negativenor is it a liability. Its an asset which the student must learn to manage for personal benefit. Be aware that this is often a compulsive behavior. It lies between assertion and aggression in a person with a low self-concept. Remember, your relationship with one student affects your relationship with all students. How you handle this student can damage your relationship with other students. Dont show a side of you that you dont want other students to see.
*First, react consistentlyand never punish irrationally. Dont "get on" the talker one day, and ignore him/her the next.
*Equally important, dont criticize publicly. You will never solve this problem during class time. Private counseling is a must. Approach talking as a social problem, not a discipline problem. This is a counseling situation that requires a plan to change behavior.
*Look for the reason for the talking. If you cannot or will not meet the students needs, you will not change the behavior. The talker has a strong activity need.
*Give this student small tasks and responsibilities daily to fulfill this need. Tell the student you will call on him/her during class discussion. You may even tell the student the question you will be asking.
*Seat the talker near quiet and serious students.
*Station yourself next to this students desk during presentations. This will keep him/her from talking. When this student is talking, dont stop class or say a word. Rather, walk toward his/her desk. This will stop the talker. Likewise, look at this student often.
*Develop a set of hand signals to remind the student when he/she is talking. Dont stop class and reprimand, however.
*Capture and hold attention by calling on the talker often.
*Challenge this student. Never forget, the articulate are often high achievers. The talker should be a good student.
*Reinforce positive behavior and contributions in class.
*Provide alternate materials that can interest this student and that are still class oriented. Try incentive programs to encourage attention and preparation.
*To encourage the talker to participate positively, allow him/her to take roll, pass out papers, etc.
*In a private conference, tell the student, "The ability to speak is your asset. Therefore, use it wisely by following some tips.
First, think before you speak so that you gain a reputation for being a thinker rather than a talker.
Second, speak slowly so that people can absorb what you say.
Third, speak quietly and gently to gain the reputation of being a person of depth.
Finally, limit your talking. Remember, you can always add a comment, but you cant withdraw one.
*Discuss the behavior with parents.
*Find time to listen.
WHAT NOT TO DO:
Common misjudgments and errors in managing the child which may perpetuate or intensify the problem.
*Showing anger and frustration. This does nothing to help the situation. In fact, it may make the talker anxious and nervousand cause him/her to talk even more.
*Saying things like "Shut up" or "Keep your mouth shut."
* Interrupting class to reprimand.
*Attempting to belittle or shame the talker, or being sarcastic.
*Punishing the entire class or creating peer pressure.
*Making rules and regulations for the entire class because of this one student.
*Assuming classmates are disturbed by the talkeror acting on such an assumption. Classmates might not even hear.
*Reacting inconsistentlyand punishing irrationally.
*Overreacting by immediately rearranging the seating chart or issuing threats or ultimatums.
*Isolating this student. The talkers need for attention or security will not allow his/her personality to take isolation.
*Becoming so frustrated that we say and do things well wish we hadnt.
*Failing to look for reasons behind the constant talking.
*Assuming the talking is directed against us personally or against class work, or that the student is uninterested, or that the talking is intended to be disrespectful.
*Assuming there is a short-term solution.
*Allowing talkers to visit after finishing lessons for the day.
*Restricting the talker to the point at which he/she isnt making a contribution at any time.
*Trying to humiliate the talker, calling attention to the behavior, or trying to get the student to be quiet by placing emphasis on the behavior.
---modified from article at teachingtips.com
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